Check whether standards are clear and realistic, presentation is real, and channels match.
What This Question Is Really Asking
Some conclude they are unlovable after a few tries; stars are tendency, while blind dating is a matching probability.
The Underlying Logic
Clarify hard requirements and soft expectations.
Check whether photos and introductions are real.
Switch to better-matching channels.
Rank requirements and keep screening.
A Step-by-Step Way to Read It
- Clarify standards
- Check presentation
- Review channels
- Rank needs
- Show real life
- Keep screening
Three Common Mistakes
Mistake 1: Reject yourself
Mistake 2: Demand everything
Mistake 3: Present a false self
Back to Your Own Chart
If blind dates fail, check whether standards are clear and realistic, presentation is real, and channels match, then rank needs and keep screening.
Reading Order
- Cast the natal chart first and locate the palaces and major stars tied to Why Repeated Blind Dates Do Not Work before judging anything
- Open the triple-direction of those palaces and count the auspicious, malefic and assistant stars separately
- Check where the natal Four Transformations land to set the chart's baseline tone
- Read the decade-limit transformations to see whether the Why Repeated Blind Dates Do Not Work line is activated in this stage
- Then read the annual transformations and the year's palace to pin down this year's trigger and timing
- Layer natal, decade and year before concluding, then decide how to act rather than labeling good or bad