Very confrontational friends are like gunpowder; choose well and do not clash.
What This Question Is Really Asking
Some gather harsh friends and clash often; stars are tendency, while relating rests on choice.
The Underlying Logic
Tian Sha in Friends means harsh friends.
Easy conflict.
Choose carefully, no anger.
This is tendency, not an absolute verdict.
A Step-by-Step Way to Read It
- Choose friends carefully
- Stay calm, no anger
- Keep measure with confrontational people
- Keep boundaries
- Be sincere
- Rest on lasting relations
Three Common Mistakes
Mistake 1: Gathering confrontational people
Mistake 2: Angry clashes
Mistake 3: Not choosing friends
Back to Your Own Chart
Tian Sha in the Friends Palace guards against friends conflict. Choose carefully, stay calm and keep measure for smooth relations.
Reading Order
- Cast the natal chart first and locate the palaces and major stars tied to Tian Sha in the Friends Palace before judging anything
- Open the triple-direction of those palaces and count the auspicious, malefic and assistant stars separately
- Check where the natal Four Transformations land to set the chart's baseline tone
- Read the decade-limit transformations to see whether the Tian Sha in the Friends Palace line is activated in this stage
- Then read the annual transformations and the year's palace to pin down this year's trigger and timing
- Layer natal, decade and year before concluding, then decide how to act rather than labeling good or bad
