A pattern in person A's Spouse Palace is not a diagnosis of person B. Label every statement by chart owner, palace, and observed behavior. Compare the two readings only after each chart is checked, then verify relationship claims through conversation.
Person A's Spouse Palace describes a perspective within A's chart. It does not diagnose B. Tag each sentence with its chart owner, palace, and time layer. Compare A and B only after reading their charts independently, then test relationship questions through conversation.
Label every observation by chart owner before comparing the two people. Ask about actual shared routines and disagreements instead of assigning a personality from one palace.