How to Read a Child’s Tantrums: Empathize and Hold

Empathize, help expression, hold, calm and firm.

What This Question Is Really Asking

Some suppress or yield; stars are tendency, while children are learning emotions.

The Underlying Logic

Read tantrums, empathize.

Help expression, hold.

Calm and firm.

This is tendency, not an absolute verdict.

A Step-by-Step Way to Read It

1. Empathize
2. Help expression
3. No hitting
4. Hold
5. Calm and firm
6. Rest on firmness

Three Common Mistakes

Mistake 1: Suppressing

Mistake 2: Yielding

Mistake 3: Hitting

Back to Your Own Chart

Tantrums call for empathy and holding the line rather than suppressing or yielding.

Reading Order

1. Cast the natal chart first and locate the palaces and major stars tied to How to Read a Child’s Tantrums before judging anything
2. Open the triple-direction of those palaces and count the auspicious, malefic and assistant stars separately
3. Check where the natal Four Transformations land to set the chart's baseline tone
4. Read the decade-limit transformations to see whether the How to Read a Child’s Tantrums line is activated in this stage
5. Then read the annual transformations and the year's palace to pin down this year's trigger and timing
6. Layer natal, decade and year before concluding, then decide how to act rather than labeling good or bad