Find the cause, increase company, set rules together, be a model, and guide rather than force.
What This Question Is Really Asking
Some confiscate and scold while staying on their own phones; stars are tendency, while habits rely on company and rules.
The Underlying Logic
Understand the cause of addiction.
Increase company and real activities.
Agree on rules together.
Be a model and guide rather than force.
A Step-by-Step Way to Read It
- Find the cause
- Spend more time
- Set rules
- Be a model
- Reduce screens
- Watch changes
Three Common Mistakes
Mistake 1: Scold
Mistake 2: Confiscate and stop there
Mistake 3: Stay on your own phone
Back to Your Own Chart
For phone addiction, find the cause, increase company, set rules together, be a model, and guide rather than force.
Reading Order
- Cast the natal chart first and locate the palaces and major stars tied to What to Do When a Child Is Addicted to Phones or Games before judging anything
- Open the triple-direction of those palaces and count the auspicious, malefic and assistant stars separately
- Check where the natal Four Transformations land to set the chart's baseline tone
- Read the decade-limit transformations to see whether the What to Do When a Child Is Addicted to Phones or Games line is activated in this stage
- Then read the annual transformations and the year's palace to pin down this year's trigger and timing
- Layer natal, decade and year before concluding, then decide how to act rather than labeling good or bad