If a chosen Zi Wei Dou Shu system assigns Tian Tong Hua Quan in the Ding Wei year and the star lands in the Children Palace, the useful question is about authority. A child may help choose an activity, while a caregiver checks time and cost. Medical decisions follow clinical advice and legal responsibility. Confirm the chart convention, then write down which decisions belong to the child, caregivers, or professionals.
An annual transformation does not put the same event in every family. If Tian Tong Hua Quan connects with the Children Palace in an individual chart, ask who decides and who does the daily care. A schedule conflict differs from an authority conflict. Compare the chart with actual calendars and agreements.